To Be with You
"To Be with You" is a soft rock ballad[1] by American hard rock band Mr. Big. It was released in late 1991 as the second single from their second album, Lean into It. The song reached number one on the US Billboard Hot 100 for three weeks and topped the charts in 11 other countries, including Australia, Canada, Germany and New Zealand.
"To Be with You" | ||||
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Single by Mr. Big | ||||
from the album Lean into It | ||||
B-side | "Green-Tinted Sixties Mind" | |||
Released | December 21, 1991 (US), January 1992 (Worldwide) | |||
Recorded | 1990 | |||
Studio | Rumbo Recorders, Canoga Park, California Cherokee Studios, Hollywood, CA | |||
Genre | Soft rock | |||
Length | 3:27 | |||
Label | Atlantic | |||
Songwriter(s) | Eric Martin, David Grahame | |||
Producer(s) | Kevin Elson | |||
Mr. Big singles chronology | ||||
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Background and writing
The song was written and composed by Eric Martin during his teen years, with guitarist Paul Gilbert contributing to its melodic arrangements later on. Writing credit is also given to David Grahame, a songwriter working for the label at the time.
While in Gilbert's apartment at Yucca Street in L.A., he and Martin were laying out their compositions. Martin had a ballad called "To Be with You". Gilbert had his psychedelic rock song called "Green Tinted Sixties Mind". Both felt the two songs were strong enough to be included in their upcoming album, despite it being purely rock;[2] and true enough, these songs remained throughout the course of their career as a group and as solo artists.
Content
"To Be with You" is about a man who has his eye on a woman who recently experienced a broken heart from a previous relationship. When Martin was a sophomore in high school, he was friends with his older sister's friend (who was a senior). She would give him rides to school and tell him about all the boy problems she had. Martin had a huge crush on her, but didn't tell her since he knew a senior would never go out with a sophomore. Martin wrote this song about her.
"It was a true story. Totally simple love lament. There was this girl I was in love with, beautiful goth chick from the late seventies [...] This girl had a lot of boyfriends who treated her like shit. I wanted to be the knight in shining armor, wanted to be with her. She wasn't having it. It never came to play. True story, though, a simple little love song."
Critical reception
Billboard commented that "headbangers get folky on this harmonious strummer." They noted further that "hand-clapping, sing-along chorus entices, while front man Eric Martin's voice has rarely sounded sweeter."[4]
Music video
The music video was directed by Nancy Bennett and features the band performing in a railroad car.[5] The video changes from black & white to color around the halfway mark.
Formats and track listings
7" single
- "To Be with You" (LP Version) (3:27)
- "Green-Tinted Sixties Mind" (LP Version) (3:30)
12" maxi
- "To Be with You"
- "A Little Too Loose" (Live)
- "The Drill Song (Daddy, Brother, Lover, Little Boy)" (Live)
- "Alive and Kickin'" (Live)
CD maxi
- "To Be with You" (3:27)
- "Green-Tinted Sixties Mind" (3:30)
- "Alive and Kickin'" (5:28)
Personnel
- Eric Martin - lead vocals
- Paul Gilbert - acoustic guitar, handclaps, backing vocals
- Billy Sheehan - bass guitar, handclaps, bass drum, backing vocals
- Pat Torpey - tambourine, bass drum, handclaps, backing vocals
Charts
Weekly charts
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Year-end charts
Decade-end charts
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Certifications
Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
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Australia (ARIA)[27] | Platinum | 70,000^ |
France | — | 94,000[41] |
Germany (BVMI)[42] | Gold | 250,000^ |
Netherlands (NVPI)[43] | Gold | 50,000^ |
Sweden (GLF)[44] | Gold | 25,000^ |
United States (RIAA)[45] | Gold | 500,000^ |
^shipments figures based on certification alone |
Release history
Country | Release date |
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United States | November 25, 1991 |
United Kingdom | March 2, 1992 |
Westlife version
The Irish pop band Westlife recorded a cover of the song and made it to their Turnaround album in 2003 and performed it live subsequently. It was also performed in their 2003 Unbreakable Tour.
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