It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)
"It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)" is a song by English rock band The 1975. It was released on 18 October 2018 through Dirty Hit and Polydor Records as the fifth single from the band's third studio album, A Brief Inquiry into Online Relationships (2018).[3] It was written by all the members of The 1975 and was produced by lead vocalist Matthew Healy and drummer George Daniel.[4] The track is a Britpop song which features synthesizers, guitars and a backing choir.
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from the album A Brief Inquiry into Online Relationships | ||||
Released | 18 October 2018 | |||
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Length | 4:08 | |||
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Having premiered on Annie Mac’s BBC Radio 1 show as the Hottest Record, the track was well received by music critics and was featured on several year-end lists. A music video largely inspired by the Talking Heads' concert film Stop Making Sense was premiered on YouTube on 3 December 2018. The band performed the song in the BBC Live Lounge in November of that year.[5]
Background
"It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)" was teased almost a year before the song's release, Matthew Healy, the lead vocalist of the band, having posted an image on Twitter of a file of the song with the caption “MFC”, the initials of the band's era named "Music for Cars", which comprises the two albums A Brief Inquiry into Online Relationships and Notes on a Conditional Form.[6]
In 2017, Matthew Healy, the lead vocalist of the band, was admitted into a rehabilitation center in Barbados to treat an on-and-off four-year addiction to heroin and benzodiazepines. Healy told The New York Times that he was lucky that his addiction didn't spiral out of control, adding that "I scared the [expletive] out of everybody that I love, and that was enough for me." He explained that he wrote the song and the other tracks from the album discussing his addiction so soon after being discharged from rehab because "I'm not going to talk about it for long."[7]
Composition and lyrics
“It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)” is a Britpop song which features synthesizers and guitars and a choir backing Healy's vocals.[1] Chloe Gilke of Uproxx described the track as "classic 1975, all high-energy synths and high-drama lovesickness."[8] Sasha Geffen, writing for Pitchfork, noted that the song "furthers their knack for saying one thing and meaning another, pairing dark lyrics with bright funk guitars, chirping synths, and a rousingly upbeat chorus."[9]
In an interview with Billboard, Healy labelled the track “the big heroin one.”[10] Prior to the song's release on Annie Mac's BBC Radio 1 show, he described the song as "the 1975-iest 1975 song since the 1975 debut record."[1] In an interview with Pitchfork, Healy explained that the song followed the story of character named "Danny" rather than that of himself because he "didn't want to talk about being a heroin addict for five years—having actual nightmares of the idea of it being uncovered. So there was a humorous reluctance to disclose it in this song."[11] The song discusses the use of drugs to cope with the end of a relationship,[12] but also explores other themes including the dystopian idea that we are living in a simulated reality.[13]
Critical reception
"It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)" garnered positive reviews from music critics. Sasha Geffen of Pitchfork commended the track's production, noting that it tied in with "one of recovery's ironies: You use to stop feeling alone, but so does everyone else who uses. Eventually, if you're lucky, you find each other and can be alone together until you're not" and compared its chorus to Belinda Carlisle's "Heaven Is a Place on Earth".[9] MusicOMH's Ross Horton deemed the song the best off the album, comparing it to "a couple of teenagers falling in love over a summer in Malibu in 1986."[14] Dan Stubbs of NME called the song "funny, clever and refreshingly honest" while Consequence of Sound noted that Healy succeeded in talking about his drug addiction without "glorifying it or sounding like a PSA."[15][16]
Music video
The music video for “It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)” was directed by Warren Fu, who had previously directed the music video for "Sincerity Is Scary". It was premiered on The 1975's YouTube channel on 3 December 2018. It is mainly inspired by the Talking Heads' concert film Stop Making Sense, but also has themes found in the TV series Black Mirror.[21]
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The video begins with Healy getting out of bed in a dark room with numerous alarm by his bedside. He goes to the mirror and switches the tap on. His reflection then clears his its throat and he promptly screams. Healy then wakes up again, this time on a sofa in a brighter room. Adam Hann, the band's lead guitarist, calls Healy, saying "Come on, mate. Let's do it". Healy gets up but knocks a table, causing a glass to fall onto the floor and break. He goes on stage and the band start's playing "It's Not Living (If It's Not with You)" in a performance similar to the Talking Heads' concert film Stop Making Sense, adopting its choreography and costumes. However, on stage, he sees one of his backing dancers duplicate. Confused, he shakes his head and rubs his eyes. As the song's chorus begins, he turns to his band-mates but sees that time has slowed down. He tries to start singing but discovers that his mouth has disappeared. He runs off stage and looks into the mirror, only to see his mouth back on his face. He returns on stage. but as the chorus recommences, he discovers that his legs are on fire. He jumps off stage, falling into water. He reemerges from the water soaked. He begins to go back on stage but discovers that a copy of himself has taken over the performance. The clone blows him a kiss and Healy leaves the concert hall.
As he goes outside, he finds himself in the clothes he wore in the music video of "Sincerity Is Scary". He then sees another duplicate of himself being filmed for the music video. Healy then goes back into the concert hall in his original clothes. The door leads directly to the stage where the band and dancers are still performing the song, this time without any music. The music recommences as he starts singing, but as the chorus begins he starts sinking into the floor. Another duplicate of himself is seen hanging from a rope from the stage's ceiling. Healy then stretches his arm and pulls the rope. The clone starts to fall but then Healy suddenly wakes up again in the bright room. Hann calls him again and Healy gets up from the sofa. He knocks a table again but the glass does not fall immediately, instead rolling near the edge of the table. Healy walks on stage as the glass falls to the floor and smashes. Healy is seen performing the song as the credits roll.[23][24]
Charts
Weekly charts
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Certifications
Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
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United Kingdom (BPI)[30] | Silver | 200,000![]() |
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References
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- Day, Laurence (24 November 2018). "The 1975 tease new track 'It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)'". The Line of Best Fit. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Coscarelli, Joe (11 October 2018). "Can a Quote-Unquote Band Drag Rock Into the Future? The 1975 Is Trying Its Hardest". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Gilke, Chloe (18 October 2018). "The 1975's New Single Is Classic, High-Drama Lovesickness". Uproxx. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Geffem, Sasha (18 October 2018). "The 1975 – 'It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)'". Pitchfork. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Lynskey, Dorian (2 August 2018). "How The 1975's Matty Healy Kicked Heroin and Took the Band to New Heights". Billboard. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Sodomsky, Sam (27 November 2018). "The 1975's Matty Healy Dissects Every Song on A Brief Inquiry Into Online Relationships". Pitchfork. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Castro-Cota, Isabella (18 October 2018). "The 1975 – "It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)"". Spin. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Krol, Charlotte (18 October 2018). "Listen to the anthemic new single from The 1975, 'It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)'". NME. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Horton, Ross (29 November 2018). "The 1975 – A Brief Inquiry Into Online Relationships". MusicOMH. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Stubbs, Dan (26 November 2018). "The 1975 – 'A Brief Inquiry Into Online Relationships' review". NME. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- Sackllah, David (23 November 2018). "Album of the Week: The 1975 Evolve the Modern Rock Album With A Brief Inquiry into Online Relationships". Consequence of Sound. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
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- Cook-Wilson, Winston (3 December 2018). "Video: The 1975 – "It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)"". Spin. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
- "Matty Healy's favourite shot from 'It's Not Living...': The 1975 Video Breakdown (Clip)". Retrieved 25 February 2019.
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- Bajgrowicz, Brooke (4 December 2018). "The 1975 Pay Tribute to Talking Heads in 'It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)' Video: Watch". Billboard. Retrieved 1 January 2019.
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- "British single certifications – 1975 – It's Not Living (If It's Not With You)". British Phonographic Industry. Retrieved 2 August 2019. Select singles in the Format field. Select Silver in the Certification field. Type It's Not Living (If It's Not With You) in the "Search BPI Awards" field and then press Enter.