I've searched through "Where is my Linux memory?" questions, but I couldn't find a similar scenario for my kind of leak:
- OEL 6.3 x86_64 Linux with 6GB of RAM
 - without any of my main components running (2 tomcat, MySQL, Grizzly-based web container) there are around 2.3GB of memory eaten by some unknown part of the system
 - hardly afew MB filecache
 - hardly afew MB slab cache
 - even after reboot
 - system is a virtual host on VMWare
 
Here is a top output ordered by RES desc:
top - 15:57:26 up  3:26,  1 user,  load average: 0.27, 0.26, 0.76
Tasks: 192 total,   1 running, 191 sleeping,   0 stopped,   0 zombie
Cpu(s):  0.0%us,  0.0%sy,  0.0%ni,100.0%id,  0.0%wa,  0.0%hi,  0.0%si,  0.0%st
Mem:   5993276k total,  2257256k used,  3736020k free,    23772k buffers
Swap:  4063224k total,    89644k used,  3973580k free,    98960k cached
  PID USER      PR  NI  VIRT  RES  SHR S %CPU %MEM    TIME+  COMMAND
 3236 root      20   0  123m 8384 1520 S  0.0  0.1   0:01.05 Xorg
 3373 gdm       20   0  369m 3840 2464 S  0.0  0.1   0:00.69 gdm-simple-gree
 3358 gdm       20   0  337m 2916 1940 S  0.0  0.0   0:05.30 gnome-settings-
16380 root      20   0  157m 2708 2192 S  0.0  0.0   0:00.01 su
20174 root      20   0  157m 2704 2192 S  0.0  0.0   0:00.01 su
free -m:
-/+ buffers/cache:       2083       3769
/proc/meminfo for slab:
MemTotal:        5993276 kB
MemFree:         3722140 kB
Slab:              50724 kB
Any hint on finding out whats eating that 2 gigs here is appreciated!