Margaret Rhodes
Margaret Rhodes LVO (née Elphinstone; 9 June 1925 – 25 November 2016) was a first cousin of Queen Elizabeth II. From 1991 to 2002, she served as Woman of the Bedchamber to Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother.
Margaret Rhodes LVO | |
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Born | Margaret Elphinstone 9 June 1925 Westminster, London, England |
Died | 25 November 2016 91) Windsor, Berkshire, England | (aged
Nationality | British |
Occupation | Woman of the bedchamber |
Employer | The Queen Mother (1991–2002) |
Spouse(s) | |
Children | 4 |
Parent(s) | |
Relatives | Elizabeth II (first cousin) |
Early life and education
Born Margaret Elphinstone in Westminster, London, Rhodes was the youngest daughter of the 16th Lord Elphinstone and his wife, Lady Mary Bowes-Lyon, an elder sister of Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother.[2][3] Less than a year older than the future queen, she was a frequent playmate of the young Princess Elizabeth.[4] During the Second World War she lived at Windsor Castle and Buckingham Palace, and took a secretarial course.[5][6] On 20 November 1947, she was a bridesmaid to Princess Elizabeth at her wedding to Philip Mountbatten, Duke of Edinburgh.[7]
Career
During World War II, she worked as a secretary for MI6.[4][5][6] She was a Woman of the Bedchamber – a mix of lady-in-waiting and companion – to her aunt, Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother, from 1991 until the latter's death in 2002.[8]
In the 2000 Birthday Honours Rhodes was appointed Lieutenant of the Royal Victorian Order (LVO). She lived in the Garden House, a grace and favour residence in Windsor Great Park.[9] In the run-up to the Queen's 80th birthday in April 2006, Rhodes gave an interview to the BBC in which she stated her belief that the Queen would not abdicate.[10]
Her autobiography, The Final Curtsey, was published in 2011.[5] She was the "castaway" on BBC Radio 4's Desert Island Discs on 3 June 2012.[11]
Rhodes appeared in seven documentaries about her first cousin Queen Elizabeth II.[12]
On 27 November 2016, Buckingham Palace confirmed that Rhodes had died, aged 91, on 25 November following a short illness.[3]
Personal life
On 31 July 1950, she married the writer Denys Gravenor Rhodes (1919–1981), with Princess Margaret as one of the bridesmaids. The couple had four children and one grandson:[13]
- Annabel Margaret Rhodes (born 21 February 1952); she married Christopher James Downing Strickland-Skailes in 1978. They have one son. She remarried (Geoffrey Vallack) Charles Cope in 1986
- Andrew James Downing Strickland-Skailes (born 1980)
- Victoria Ann Rhodes (born 27 September 1953), a goddaughter of Queen Elizabeth II; married Nicholas Deans in 1974
- Simon John Gravenor Rhodes (born 22 February 1957), a godson of Princess Margaret;[14] married Susan Simon in 1983
- Michael Andrew Gravenor Rhodes (born 8 June 1960)
Ancestry
Having been a first cousin to Elizabeth II, Rhodes shared half her ancestry with the Queen, including several notable peers.[13]
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References
- "Margaret Rhodes". Desert Island Discs. 3 June 2012. BBC Radio 4. Retrieved 18 January 2014.
- "Index entry". FreeBMD. ONS. Retrieved 28 November 2016.
- Knapton, Sarah (27 November 2016). "Queen's cousin and best friend Margaret Rhodes dies aged 91". The Daily Telegraph. Retrieved 28 November 2016.
- Barry Neild; Nick Glass (5 June 2012). "How Diana's death turned queen into 'proper granny'". CNN. London. Retrieved 16 August 2013.
- Grice, Elizabeth (13 April 2011). "Margaret Rhodes: The Queen's cousin". The Daily Telegraph. Retrieved 28 November 2016.
- Brandreth, Gyles (2005). Philip & Elizabeth: Portrait of a Royal Marriage (First American ed.). New York: W.W. Norton.
- Chen, Joyce (17 July 2013). "I'm "Not Terribly" Excited about Kate Middleton's Baby". US Weekly. Retrieved 16 August 2013.
- "The Who's Who Behind the Palace Walls: The Ladies in waiting of Royalty". The Royal Fanzine. 3 November 2011. Retrieved 15 May 2013.
- Amanpour, Christiane (16 July 2013). "The Queen's cousin". CNN. Retrieved 16 August 2013.
- "Queen 'will never quit throne' claims cousin". Scotsman. 19 April 2006.
- "Margaret Rhodes". BBC Radio 4. 3 June 2012.
- Margaret Rhodes on IMDb
- Hunt, Peter (27 November 2016). "Queen's cousin Margaret Rhodes dies".
- "Royal Godchildren". Yvonne's Royalty Home Page. Archived from the original on 2 May 2012. Retrieved 15 June 2013.