Kiliwehi
Mary Ann Kiliwehi Kaʻauwai (c. 1840 – November 4, 1873) was a Hawaiian high chiefess and lady-in-waiting of the Kingdom of Hawaii. Alongside her husband William Hoapili Kaʻauwai, she traveled with Queen Emma of Hawaii to Europe between 1865 and 1866, and circumnavigated the globe upon their return eastward via New Zealand.
Kiliwehi | |
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Born | c. 1840 |
Died | November 4, 1873 Haleʻākala, Honolulu, Oahu |
Spouse | William Hoapili Kaʻauwai |
Father | Haʻalou |
Mother | Kuini Liliha |
Early life
Kiliwehi was born c. 1840,[1] as the daughter of Kuini Liliha, an influential high chiefess and Governor of Oahu, and Haʻalou. Her mother was a descendant of the ancient kings of Hawaii and Maui.[2] Kiliwehi was also the name of an early Hawaiian high chiefess who was the daughter of King Kamehameha I and Peleuli, the wife of Prime Minister Kalanimoku and the mother of Leleiohoku I.[3]
She had many half-siblings including sisters: Jane Loeau (1828–1873), Abigail Maheha (1832–1861), and Kailinoa, and brothers: Pius F. Koakanu (died 1880) and Aberahama Kaikioewa Palekaluhi (1830–1912).[2] Most of her siblings were given away in hānai to other family members and friends. The Hawaiian custom of hānai is an informal form of adoption between extended families practiced by Hawaiian royals and commoners alike.[4] Kiliwehi and her sister Abigail Maheha were adopted under the Hawaiian tradition of hānai by the Princess Kekauʻōnohi, a granddaughter of Kamehameha I who served as Governor of Kauai.[5][6]
She attended the Royal School in Honolulu, which was run by American Protestant missionaries Reverend Edward G. Beckwith. Her classmates included the future monarchs Kalākaua and Liliuokalani, and Princess Victoria Kamāmalu.[6] These royal classmates and her two elder sisters had attended the previous institution of the same name, a boarding school ran by Amos Starr Cooke and Juliette Montague Cooke, and had been declared by King Kamehameha III as eligible for the Hawaiian throne.[7]
Marriage and travel abroad
Kiliwehi married William Hoapili Kaʻauwai (1835–1874), a Maui high chief, politician and the only ordained Native Hawaiian priest of the Anglican Church of Hawaii. They had no children. She and her husband became associated with King Kamehameha IV and his wife Queen Emma. They became early converts to the Anglican faith.[8]
After Kamehameha IV's death, Queen Emma decided to travel to England to solicit donations for erecting a cathedral in Honolulu and to continue the legacy of her husband. She chose Kiliwehi as her lady-in-waiting and her husband Kaʻauwai to be her chaplain to accompany her on this trip from 1865 to 1866. They traveled with the queen through Panama, England, Italy, and the French Rivera. She was presented to Queen Victoria during Queen Emma's audience with the British monarch on September 9, 1865, and her overnight stay at Windsor Castle on November 27, 1865. In her private journal, Victoria mentioned Kiliwehi as "Mrs. Hoopile", writing that Queen Emma "presented her lady, whose husband is her Chaplain, both being Hawaiians".[8][9][10]
The extended royal trip continued onto the European continent. At Florence, her husband requested to return home and continue his clerical duties in Hawaii. Later at Turin, Kiliwehi was also permitted to accompany him back. They returned to London and took an extended route back to Hawaii, stopping off in Auckland, New Zealand without the knowledge or permission of Queen Emma or King Kamehameha V. Prior to leaving England, Kaʻauwai had written to the Hawaiian Minister of Finance Charles Coffin Harris indicating they intended to take a "rather long round-about, and slow way toward home". Unknown to the Hawaiian government, the couple went to New Zealand to recruit Māori immigrants to settle in the Kingdom of Hawaii. This unauthorized excursion displeased the Hawaiian government and they were asked to return home.[8]
By the time the Kaʻauwais returned to Hawaii in 1867, Queen Emma had already returned as well. Back in Honolulu, her husband was shunned by King Kamehameha V because of his treatment of Queen Emma and the unauthorized visit to New Zealand. Domestic relations between Kiliwehi and her husband worsened. According to Kamehameha V, in one incident, Kaʻauwai placed a gun to her head and offered to shoot her. After this abuse, she left her husband and went to live at Haleʻākala, with High Chiefess Bernice Pauahi Bishop. Kiliwehi filed for divorce on April 22, 1872; the case went to trial on September 12 and she was granted a temporary decree which was made absolute on June 18, 1873. She was awarded ten dollars a month in alimony and Kaʻauwai was asked to cover the costs of the divorce suit. Her husband later had an illegitimate son William Hoapili Kaʻauwai II, whose mother is either mentioned as Keanolani or Keauookalau, the wife of Lihilihi, of Kauai.[8][11]
Death
Kiliwehi developed pulmonary tuberculosis, a serious disease among the Native Hawaiians which her husband also had. On October 12, 1873, she was sent from her home at Wailuku via Kahului to the Queen's Hospital in Honolulu for further treatment. Her friend Queen Emma wrote, "Poor Kiliwehi is at the Hospital and bleeding dreadfully at her lungs." Her condition worsened and she was moved from her hospital room to Haleʻākala, the home of Bernice Pauahi Bishop. Kiliwehi eventually died, on November 3, 1873, at Haleʻākala, Honolulu. She was 33 years old at the time of her death. Her funeral was held the following day at the St. Andrew's Pro-Cathedral.[8][12][13]
References
- This date is possibly inaccurate since her mother died on August 25, 1839. (Jarves 1872, p. 155)
- McKinzie 1983, pp. 41–42.
- Kameʻeleihiwa 1992.
- Kanahele 1999, pp. 1–4.
- Cooke & Cooke 1937, p. vi.
- Honolulu Almanac and Directory 1884, pp. 72–73.
- "Princes and Chiefs eligible to be Rulers". The Polynesian. 1 (9). Honolulu. July 20, 1844. p. 1. Archived from the original on December 22, 2015. Retrieved December 1, 2016.
- Muir 1952, pp. 5–13
- Hackler 1988, pp. 109–119.
- Cracroft, Franklin & Queen Emma 1958, pp. 236–244.
- McKinzie 1983, p. 49; Kaeo & Queen Emma 1976, p. 114; "Mookuauhau Alii – Na Iwikuamoo o Hawaii Nei Mai Kahiko Mai". Ka Makaainana. VI (6). Honolulu. August 10, 1896. p. 2. Retrieved September 26, 2016.
- Kaeo & Queen Emma 1976, pp. 114, 131–135
- Hawaiian Church Monthly Messenger, I ( 1873), p. 96; "Died". The Hawaiian Gazette. IX (44). Honolulu. November 12, 1873. p. 3. Archived from the original on December 20, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.; "Died". The Pacific Commercial Advertsier. XVIII (19). Honolulu. November 8, 1873. p. 2. Archived from the original on December 20, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.; "Ma ka Poaono..." Ka Nupepa Kuokoa. XII (42). Honolulu. October 18, 1873. p. 2. Archived from the original on December 3, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.; "Make o Mrs. Kiliwehi Kaauwai". Ka Nupepa Kuokoa. XII (45). Honolulu. November 8, 1873. p. 2. Archived from the original on December 3, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.; "Died". The Friend. XXX (12). Honolulu. December 1, 1873. p. 101. Archived from the original on December 3, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.; "Mrs. Kiliwehi Hoapili of Hawaii". The New York Herald (13642). New York. December 27, 1873. p. 8. Archived from the original on December 20, 2016. Retrieved December 3, 2016.
Bibliography
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- Cooke, Amos Starr; Cooke, Juliette Montague (1937). Richards, Mary Atherton (ed.). The Chiefs' Children School: A Record Compiled from the Diary and Letters of Amos Starr Cooke and Juliette Montague Cooke, by Their Granddaughter Mary Atherton Richards. Honolulu: Honolulu Star-Bulletin. OCLC 1972890.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- Cracroft, Sophia; Franklin, Jane; Queen Emma (1958). Korn, Alfons L. (ed.). The Victorian Visitors: An Account of the Hawaiian Kingdom, 1861–1866, Including the Journal Letters of Sophia Cracroft: Extracts from the Journals of Lady Franklin, and Diaries and Letters of Queen Emma of Hawaii. Honolulu: University of Hawaii Press. hdl:10125/39981. ISBN 978-0-87022-421-8. OCLC 8989368.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- Hackler, Rhoda E. A. (1988). ""My Dear Friend": Letters of Queen Victoria and Queen Emma". The Hawaiian Journal of History. Honolulu: Hawaiian Historical Society. 22: 101–130. hdl:10524/220. OCLC 60626541.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- Jarves, James Jackson (1872). History of the Hawaiian Islands. Honolulu: H. M. Whitney. OCLC 1611016.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- Kameʻeleihiwa, Lilikalā (1992). Native Land and Foreign Desires. Honolulu: Bishop Museum Press. ISBN 0-930897-59-5. OCLC 154146650.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
- Kaeo, Peter; Queen Emma (1976). Korn, Alfons L. (ed.). News from Molokai, Letters Between Peter Kaeo & Queen Emma, 1873–1876. Honolulu: The University Press of Hawaii. hdl:10125/39980. ISBN 978-0-8248-0399-5. OCLC 2225064.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
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