Hardest to Love
"Hardest to Love" is a record by Canadian singer The Weeknd from his fourth studio album After Hours (2020)[3] The Weeknd wrote and produced the song with producers Max Martin and Oscar Holter.
"Hardest to Love" | |
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Song by The Weeknd | |
from the album After Hours | |
Released | March 20, 2020 |
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Length | 3:31 |
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Background and promotion
While addressing the inspiration behind his compositions with Variety Magazine, The Weeknd shared, "This one I did originally with [co-writer/co-producer] Oscar [Holter], and then Max [Martin] finished it with me. I wrote this song very fast and it was the last song on the record that I finished. When I made this song I was nervous because I felt like I went overboard with the ambition — I’m ambitious, but I thought maybe this is too much. It wasn’t until 'Blinding Lights' [became one of the biggest hits of Weeknd’s career] that I knew, a) I could finish this album and b) I could put this song on it. And sometimes it just comes down to the melody. This was the fastest melody that I ever made — I went into a room for 20 minutes and wrote the entire song, and then Max produced it".[4]
The song was first previewed in a teaser video posted to Abel's Twitter account on March 19, 2020.[5]
Lyrics and composition
"Hardest to Love" features Abel reminiscing on his past behaviors in a relationship, blaming himself for its demise.[6]
Tesfaye refers to some softer points in the U.K. hardcore continuum dating back to the late '90s via drum'n'bass while modernizing it with finesse.[7]
Critical reception
"Hardest to Love" received widespread critical acclaim. "On the standout ‘Hardest to Love,’ Tesfaye delivers one of the most affecting vocal performances of his career over a glitchy pop soundscape. The song's catchiness belies its melancholy, a sophisticated combination that's a testament to Tesfaye's depiction of a relationship that results in a confusing morass of emotions that we seldom process them in a linear fashion: anger, sadness, gratitude, elation, loneliness. Tesfaye navigates these conflicting emotions in a way that captures the experience of being lost in that swirl," noted Slant Magazine columnist Seth Wilson.[8] Yahoo Entertainment writer Larry Fitzmaurice exclaimed, "The Weeknd delivers After Hours' most shocking deviation from that gloom and doom aesthetic with the sky-climbing ‘Hardest to Love,’ a featherweight slice of drum 'n' bass that resembles a lost track from Björk's classic Homogenic".[9] Rolling Stone journalist praised the song, "On ‘Hardest to Love,’ a fleet, pretty Max Martin co-write with a Nineties-evoking drum ‘n’ bass feel, he's the cold-hearted ex stamping out love's final embers, adding a quintessentially Weeknd-ish kicker: "It’s hard to let me go," at once self-cancelling and self-absorbed".[10]
Vice editor Ashwin Rodrigues said, "On ‘Hardest to Love,’ The Weeknd admits his shortcomings as a romantic partner on top of electric, water droplet synths and a constant, low vibrating drum n bass beat. The track features a hard-to-shake chorus and production that would really put the sound system of a brand new, electric German SUV to the test".[11] Tom Breihan of Stereogum analyzed, " ‘Hardest To Love’ adapts glimmering Max Martin melodies to fit the rushing pulse of car-commercial drum-‘n’-bass. The record seamlessly combines elite-aesthete sound clouds with big-money pop music. His voice is magnificent. Tesfaye's only gaining greater control of his instrument; he floats airily over these fantastically rich soundscapes that he's commissioned".[12] ‘Hardest to Love’ is a taut and disciplined assemblage ready for mass consumption. The piece is built on a stuttering drum beat and major-key melody and is positively uplifting," asserted Wall Street Journal writer Mark Richardson.[13]
"‘Hardest to Love’ pays homage to liquid drum ‘N’ bass, building a sense of irony as the upbeat instrumental belies a heartfelt confession of wrong-doing. An angelic choir can be heard, creating a sense of hope, greatly showcasing how effective the production throughout this album is," observed Clash Magazine reviewer Ramy Abou-Setta.[14] GQ Magazine writer Max Cea added, "It’s dark and moody, and comes from the perspective of a lonely narrator capturing the way a lot of people are feeling as they pace their living rooms and feverishly refresh the news".[15]
Commercial performance
Following the release of its parent album, "Hardest To Love" debuted at number 25 on the US Billboard Hot 100 dated April 4, 2020.[16]
On the Rolling Stone Top 100 Songs chart, the song reached its peak of number 7.[17]
In the singer's native country of Canada, "Hardest To Love" reached number 36 on the Canadian Hot 100.[18]
Personnel
Credits adapted from Genius.[19]
- The Weeknd – songwriting, vocals, production, programming, keyboards, bass, guitar, drums
- Max Martin – songwriting, production, programming, keyboards, bass, guitar, drums
- Oscar Holter – songwriting, production, programming, keyboards, bass, guitar, drums
- Shin Kamiyama – engineering
- Cory Bice – engineering assistant
- Jeremy Lertola – engineering assistant
- Sean Klein – engineering assistant
- Serban Ghenea – mixing
- John Hanes – engineering for mixing
- Dave Kutch – mastering
- Kevin Peterson – mastering
Charts
Chart (2020) | Peak position |
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Canada (Canadian Hot 100)[20] | 36 |
Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)[21] | 40 |
Denmark (Tracklisten)[22] | 38 |
Estonia (Eesti Tipp-40)[23] | 21 |
France (SNEP)[24] | 52 |
Italy (FIMI)[25] | 49 |
New Zealand Hot Singles (RMNZ)[26] | 2 |
Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)[27] | 15 |
Sweden (Sverigetopplistan)[28] | 39 |
UK Streaming (Official Charts Company)[29] | 34 |
US Billboard Hot 100[30] | 25 |
US Rolling Stone Top 100[31] | 6 |
Release history
Region | Date | Format | Label(s) | Ref. |
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Various | March 20, 2020 | [32] |
References
- "The Weeknd Goes Track-by-Track (Almost) on 'After Hours'". Variety Magazine. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Abou-Setta, Ramy. "The Weeknd - After Hours". Clash. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "After Hours The Weeknd". Genius.com. Retrieved June 3, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Goes Track-by-Track (Almost) on 'After Hours'". Variety Magazine. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "ALBUM DROPS TONIGHT". twitter.com. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Hardest to Love Lyrics". Genius.com. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Kellman, Andy (March 20, 2020). "After Hours Allmusic Review". Allmusic. Retrieved June 7, 2020.
- "Review: The Weeknd's After Hours Is a Triumphant Depiction of Heartbreak". Slant Magazine. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Fitzmaurice, Larry. "After Hours is the Weeknd's most consistent work to date". Yahoo Entertainment. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Dolan, Jon. "The Weeknd Is Alone Again, Naturally, on 'After Hours'". Rolling Stone. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Rodrigues, Ashwin. "The 11 Songs We Couldn't Get Enough of This Month". Vice. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Breihan, Tom. "Premature Evaluation: The Weeknd After Hours". Stereogum. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Richardson, Mark. "'After Hours' by the Weeknd Review: Record of a Multifaceted Personality". Wall Street Journal. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Abou-Setta, Ramy. "The Weeknd - After Hours". Clash. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Cea, Max. "The Weeknd, After Hours: The Best Song Is…". GQ. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- Zellener, Xander (March 30, 2020). "Every Song From The Weeknd's 'After Hours' Is on the Hot 100". Billboard. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "Rolling Stone Top 100 (Marcy 20, 2020 - March 17, 2020)". Rolling Stone. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Chart History". Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Hardest to Love Lyrics". Genius.com. Retrieved June 4, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Chart History (Canadian Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "ČNS IFPI" (in Czech). Hitparáda – Digital Top 100 Oficiální. IFPI Czech Republic. Note: Change the chart to CZ – SINGLES DIGITAL – TOP 100 and insert 202013 into search. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Danishcharts.com – The Weeknd – Hardest to Love". Tracklisten. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- Nestor, Siim (March 31, 2020). "Eesti Tipp-40 Muusikas: Selle nädala kangelased on The Weeknd ja AG". Eesti Ekspress (in Estonian). Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Top Singles (Week 13, 2020)" (in French). Syndicat National de l'Édition Phonographique. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Italiancharts.com – The Weeknd – Hardest to Love". Top Digital Download. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "NZ Hot Singles Chart". Recorded Music NZ. March 30, 2020. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "ČNS IFPI" (in Slovak). Hitparáda – Singles Digital Top 100 Oficiálna. IFPI Czech Republic. Note: Select SINGLES DIGITAL - TOP 100 and insert 202013 into search. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Swedishcharts.com – The Weeknd – Hardest to Love". Singles Top 100. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Official Audio Streaming Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "The Weeknd Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Top 100 Songs". Rolling Stone. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
- "Listen to the Weeknd's New Album After Hours". Pitchfork. Retrieved June 4, 2020.