As far as I know it's not possible to reset an anonymous counter (same problem as not possible to reset an anonymous quota, see at the end).
Named counters
Tested with nftables 0.9.0. Required: nftables >= 0.8 and kernel >= 4.10.
What can be done instead is to use named counters, which are one of the (currently) three possible stateful objects: counter, (conntrack) helper and quota . These named counters can then be referenced from rules. A given named counter is attached to a table. OP's ruleset can be written like this instead:
table ip filter {
counter mycounterd102 {
packets 697173 bytes 850761603
}
counter mycounters100 {
packets 38 bytes 4096
}
chain input {
type filter hook input priority 0; policy accept;
ip daddr 192.168.0.102 counter name "mycounterd102"
ip saddr 192.168.0.100 counter name "mycounters100"
}
}
With a manual nft command the named counter is created like this, optionally with non zero values set:
nft add counter ip filter mycounterd102 packets 697173 bytes 850761603
Now, one can list or reset these named counters:
# nft list counter ip filter mycounterd102
table ip filter {
counter mycounterd102 {
packets 697173 bytes 850761603
}
}
# nft reset counter ip filter mycounterd102
table ip filter {
counter mycounterd102 {
packets 697173 bytes 850761603
}
}
# nft list counter ip filter mycounterd102
table ip filter {
counter mycounterd102 {
packets 0 bytes 0
}
}
As expected the reset command will atomically list-and-reset the given counter.
It's also possible to reset all counters in the table (or in all tables if no table is given):
# nft reset counters table ip filter
table ip filter {
counter mycounters100 {
packets 38 bytes 4096
}
counter mycounterd102 {
packets 0 bytes 0
}
}
Reference: Stateful objects - nftables wiki
which talks about counters and quotas. There's a linked bug related to not being able to reset an anonymous quota even if resetting all quotas. One can suppose it's exactly the same issue with counters: not available as of january 2019 (and at the date of this answer):
Bug 1314 - nft reset quotas does not reset anonymous quotas