What you are talking about is "work product" (the pentest reports). There are lots of industries where someone cannot show their work product to another person to show their expertise. A cashier cannot show another employer their work product, because there is nothing to show.
What you are trying to figure out is what to show instead of your work product. That's actually quite easy.
- Referrals
- Testimonials from previous clients
- Testimonials from co-workers/employers
- Certifications (some people will flay me for this suggestion, but it helps support actual work you've done - certifications should confirm your expertise and not be the sum total of your expertise)
- Performance in competitions
- Work product in adjacent areas (CVEs, bug bounties, things you've coded, books, etc.)
You want to show, not your main work product, but your skills in adjacent areas that reflect your skill and expertise in your main work.
The easy way to do this? Get more public with your technical work (CVEs, competitions, CTFs, etc.) and create materials to help potential clients, whether they hire you or not. Books, a blog, anything to reach out to customers to help them but not sell to them. If you can help as a hired pentester, then you can help as a provider of general advice. Do that, and you develop trust. When you reach out to prospective clients, you can give them your free material, whether they hire you or not.
When you can't show work product, you need to have trust and reputation.