Is it even possible with vsftpd or not?
After looking at the documentation there is no way to configure OCSP stapling support in vsvftpd.
Even if possible, would it be wise on an FTPS server? Isn't that only a web-thing?
OCSP stapling serves the OCSP response inside the TLS handshake. This makes sense for FTP too since this way the FTP client does not need to do an extra OCSP lookup (which costs performance and is more privacy-invasive). But, if any relevant FTP clients to an OCSP lookup in the first place is unknown to me, at least in the past many did even do proper certificate validations like validating the hostname.