Laila Haidari
Laila Haidari (born 1978) is an Afghan activist and restaurateur. She runs Mother Camp, a drug rehabilitation centre she founded in Kabul, Afghanistan, in 2010. She also owns Taj Begum, a Kabul cafe that funds Mother Camp. Taj Begum is frequently raided because it breaks taboos; the cafe is run by a woman and allows unmarried men and women to eat together. Haidari is the subject of the 2018 documentary film Laila at the Bridge.
Laila Haidari | |
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Born | 1978 (age 41–42) Quetta, Pakistan |
Nationality | Afghanistan |
Occupation | Activist, restaurateur |
Biography
Early life, marriage, and education
Haidari was born to an Afghan family in Quetta, Pakistan, in 1978.[1] While an infant, her family moved to Iran as refugees.[1] A child bride, Haidari was married at age 12 to a mullah in his thirties.[1] She had her first child at age 13.[1] The couple had three children in total.[1][2]
When her husband permitted her to take religious classes, Haidari secretly began studying other subjects. She earned a university degree in filmmaking.[3]
Haidari divorced her husband when she was 21 years old.[4] Per Islamic law, the children remained with their father.[3]
Career and activism
Haidari moved to Afghanistan in 2009.[1][5] In Kabul, she found her brother, Hakim, living under Pul-e Sokhta Bridge with hundreds of other drug-addicted individuals.[5] Motivated by her brother's condition, the growing drug problem in Afghanistan, and the dearth of government-run shelters for addicts, Haidari established a drug rehabilitation centre in 2010.[3][6] The centre was named Mother Camp by its first clients.[6] Mother Camp does not receive government funds or foreign aid.[2][6] It is the city's only private drug rehabilitation centre.[6]
In 2011, Haidari opened a restaurant, Taj Begum, in Kabul, in order to fund Mother Camp.[6][3] The restaurant has been noted for being woman-run, a rarity in Afghanistan,[7] and for providing a space in which married and unmarried men and women can socialize together, a cultural taboo in the local community.[3] The restaurant employs individuals who lived at Mother Camp.[5] Haidari's restaurant has been raided by the police on multiple occasions, reportedly because men and women dine together in the space, because Haidari does not always wear a head scarf, and because she is a woman entrepreneur.[8]
Haidari has spoken out against the Taliban's presence in Afghanistan, including the threats it presents to women's rights in the country.[8][9][10][11] She has criticized the Afghan government for not including women in the peace process for the ongoing war in Afghanistan.[3][8]
In 2019, Haidari was an invited speaker at the Oslo Freedom Forum, hosted by the Human Rights Foundation.[12][13]
Laila at the Bridge
Haidari is the subject of a documentary, Laila at the Bridge, directed by Elizabeth and Gulistan Mirzaei.[14] The film won the FACT:Award for investigative documentaries at Copenhagen's CPH:DOX film festival in 2018.[14] It also won the Social Justice Award for Documentary Film at the 34th annual Santa Barbara International Film Festival.[15]
References
- Nordlinger, Jay (2019-08-08). "An Independent Woman". National Review. Retrieved 2020-03-10.
- Pan, Sevara (2018-10-23). "Laila, mother of the addicts". Modern Times Review. Retrieved 2020-03-10.
- Nordland, Rod (2019-02-15). "She's a Force of Nature, and She Just Declared War on Peace With the Taliban". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2020-03-13.
- Lacey, Liam (2018-04-28). "Review: 'Laila at the Bridge'". POV Magazine. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Kumar, Ruchi (2016-10-13). "In Afghanistan, 'Mother' has her own approach to helping drug addicts". Christian Science Monitor. ISSN 0882-7729. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Kumar, Ruchi (2019-01-02). "Inside Mother Camp: the woman tackling Afghanistan's drug problem". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 2020-03-13.
- Mehrdad, Ezzatullah (2018-12-21). "Defying the odds as a woman entrepreneur in Afghanistan". Global Voices. Retrieved 2020-03-13.
- Nordland, Rod; Faizi, Fatima; Abed, Fahim (2019-01-27). "Afghan Women Fear Peace With Taliban May Mean War on Them". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- "The War On Afghan Women". Al Jazeera. 2019-08-29. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Nordlinger, Jay (2019-10-10). "Looking Hard at the Afghan War". National Review. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Mengli, Ahmed; Yusufzai, Mushtaq; Smith, Saphora; De Luce, Dan (2019-07-10). "U.S.-Taliban talks inch America closer to withdrawing from Afghanistan". NBC News. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Piene, Bibiana (2019-05-27). "Profilerte journalister til toppmøte i Oslo". Journalisten (in Norwegian). Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Oslo Freedom Forum (2019-07-17). "Fighting the Devastating Consequences of War | Laila Haidari | 2019". YouTube. Retrieved 2020-03-13.
- Lodge, Guy (2018-03-23). "Swedish Doc 'The Raft' Leads Winners at CPH:DOX Fest". Variety. Retrieved 2020-03-14.
- Bennett, Anita (2019-02-10). "'Babysplitters' and 'In Love and War' Among Santa Barbara International Film Festival Winners". Deadline. Retrieved 2020-03-14.