I have experimented with many routers using DD-WRT setting up long distance wireless links, and honestly I have not noticed much gain raising the TX from the stock output to the limit of 251mw. I notice no difference over 70mw on a WRT-54G, a WHR-G300N, a DIR-825, a DIR-615, an E3000, and several others. Some of them I haven't noticed any difference at all raising the TX any amount. All of the routers I have listed I have tested over a distance of two miles using 19dbi gain yagi antennas on each end.
Just experiment a little bit, raise your TX and see what your signal strength is at distance. You will likely come to the same conclusion I did, there is no need to pump excessive wattage through your radios (which is also hard on your power adapters... I have replaced several) if your not going to see any increase in signal strength.
A bigger antenna will give you much more signal strength at distance than increased wattage will, and it will do so without taxing your radios and power supply.
I will also add that excessive wattage through your antennas that are not big enough can also create signal distortion, which can actually decrease perceived signal strength. To use an analogy, imagine your antenna as a speaker and your router as your stereo receiver. If your speaker (antenna) is small your music (signal) will be distorted if your receiver (router) is set at full volume (TX).
1Don't forget that even if a radio can receive the router, it must be powerful enough for router to receive it! If you put too much power, situation where computer can pick up router but router can't pick up computer can happen. – AndrejaKo – 2011-03-03T01:25:41.937