xDebug configurations for php7.0-fpm, nginx using VSCode IDE

Question

I am contently getting this error when I start debugging with xdebug while it doesn't stop in any of my breakpoints it stop in warnings that I did not put breakpoints on and when I click on local variables it start loading and load forever until I have to restart vscode.

running

Ubuntu linux 18.4
nginx
debugging php magento

php -v
PHP 7.0.33-8+ubuntu18.04.1+deb.sury.org+1 (cli) (built: May 31 2019 11:34:35) ( NTS )
Copyright (c) 1997-2017 The PHP Group
Zend Engine v3.0.0, Copyright (c) 1998-2017 Zend Technologies
    with Zend OPcache v7.0.33-8+ubuntu18.04.1+deb.sury.org+1, Copyright (c) 1999-2017, by Zend Technologies
    with Xdebug v2.7.1, Copyright (c) 2002-2019, by Derick Rethans

my php.ini

[Xdebug]
zend_extension="xdebug.so"
xdebug.remote_autorestart=1
xdebug.remote_autostart=1
xdebug.remote_enable=1
xdebug.remote_port=9000
xdebug.profiler_enable=1
xdebug.remote_connect_back=1
xdebug.remote_log=/var/log/xdebug.log

and my xdebug.ini

zend_extension="xdebug.so"

xdebug.log

[21636] Log opened at 2019-06-12 09:39:00
[21636] I: Checking remote connect back address.
[21636] I: Checking header 'HTTP_X_FORWARDED_FOR'.
[21636] I: Checking header 'REMOTE_ADDR'.
[21636] W: Remote address not found, connecting to configured address/port: localhost:9000. :-|
[21636] W: Creating socket for 'localhost:9000', poll success, but error: Operation now in progress (29).
[21636] E: Could not connect to client. :-(
[21636] Log closed at 2019-06-12 09:39:00

and the lunch.json file

{
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    "version": "0.2.0",
    "configurations": [

        {
            "type": "chrome",
            "request": "launch",
            "name": "Launch Chrome",
            "webRoot": "${workspaceFolder}\\web"
        },
        {
            "name": "Listen for XDebug",
            "type": "php",
            "request": "launch",
            "port": 9000
        },
        {
            "name": "Launch currently open script",
            "type": "php",
            "request": "launch",
            "program": "${file}",
            "cwd": "${fileDirname}",
            "port": 9000
        }
    ]