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Thermiteisfun
October 6th, 2008, 03:44 PM
In return for the thought provoking discussion (although it was derailed a bit) I provided earlier last week I ask a favor of you forumites.... please interpret the full meaning of this song for me.

http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=9KGtuMHinLM

lyrics here:
http://www.lyrics007.com/George%20Michael%20Lyrics/Careless%20Whisper%20Lyrics.html

I kinda have a basic understanding of the feelings expressed by this song but I want to know the full depth of whats expressed in it. It's so full of conflicting messages. After this song was sent to me I was sent the song "I will possess your heart" by Deathcab for Cutie.


While obviously this site was meant for things other than love..... the intelligence expressed here is above par even at major universities and I am hoping the great minds here may help me.

Kinda important.

Please help.

P.S. Yes I googled and I found scant information bordering on shit topics at yahoo ask (not capitalized for a reason), I wish to know this before I say I love her for we both believe that those words are not to be used callously and it reflects a state of being. BTW we both pay close attention to lyrics.

P.S.S. my thoughts on the meaning:

I feel so unsure as I take your hand an lead you to the dance floor.
As the music dies something in your eyes
Calls to mind a silver screen and you're its sad goodbye.
I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm

She is unsure of her feelings yet she feels guilty about recent actions of hers. her recent breakup is still troubling her.

Though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool.
I should have known better than to cheat a friend

Easy enough, I act stupid quite often but when interested I show my intellect.

...drunk i finish in morning.damn shes a freaking genius she plays these mind games with me all the time to test me :)

-=HeX=-
October 7th, 2008, 04:17 AM
Hickey: the one female forumite I knew left the forum because it was too male dominated, so maybe a bit of tolerance?

Thermiteisfun: So ye are using song lyrics to tell each other your feelings for each other... Well thats imaginative... I was just told it to my face and I said it back and it was all good from then on however before being ones lover you should also be a very close friend. Pm me.

Hinckleyforpresident
October 7th, 2008, 03:29 PM
Let;s get things clear 2 thingy...

I would like to ask you the same question

why would someone discuss these effeminate phrases ( love and friendship) on this forum.......?

You.....would you care to talk about those issues with your fellow mates....? Would it not bother them that their friend had some gender issues?

Me I would not talk about it either with guys ,,,but only with ladies. But are there any females in this forum that can appreciate such subject matter?

I have a better question for you, hickey: Why would you type like a 'tard? Consider this a warning.

And for the record, the water cooler is: Socialize among friends, share your thoughts, and discuss topics that don�t fit into any other section on The Forum.

This thread is a perfectly fine example of socialization and the sharing of people's thoughts.

Thermiteisfun
October 7th, 2008, 05:19 PM
hmmm... we are very close friends though a recent situation regarding an ex has left her mentally and emotionally exhausted to say the least.

I am moving to the city she lives in which is coincidentally my hometown.

I have found what the song is about and the content, to be truthful fits the situation perfectly.....though the words must be taken somewhat out of context and literal. I am immensely happy something such as this has happened to me because I honestly never thought it would happen.

I suppose I should give her time to recover from the emotional trauma both I and her ex has caused her, but I wish so dearly to tell her those three special words in the throws of passion :( .

Edit: and to hickey....you sir, are a homophobic dick with no intelligence to speak of and do not belong even in the BFL section.....disappear and never return as you lack both the intelligence and emotional maturity to deal with anything discussed here.

-=HeX=-
October 7th, 2008, 08:56 PM
Thermite: give her time to heal, but dont abandon her during that time. Be there for her. Emotions are delicate, so you must help patch them up very carefully. Also, always be sure you know exactly what you are doing and plan appropriately... I know how you are feeling, and telling her you love her will actually probably be quite nerve wracking.

Hickey: this forum is not all men, we have had female members. You are acting homophobically and that is not really acceptable... Ah well I am not a mod so I cant really give out, just watch yourself. Also, thermite is not gay, he is in love with a girl and is obviously straight so shut up.